- Omoni Oboli, an actress and filmmaker, emphasizes the significance of selecting a life partner who is genuinely kind and supportive of one’s dreams and goals.
- Oboli emphasized that a partner’s financial resources should not overshadow their capacity to support and uphold one’s aspirations.

Nigerian actress and filmmaker Omoni Oboli has shared heartfelt advice about the importance of choosing a life partner who genuinely supports your dreams and ambitions.
In a recent interview, Oboli stressed that emotional support and genuine kindness should take precedence over material wealth when selecting a spouse. According to her, while financial gifts may seem appealing, they can never replace the value of a partner who truly believes in you.
“Marrying someone who doesn’t support your growth can hold you back and lead to lasting regret,” she warned.
Oboli believes that kindness and encouragement are the true cornerstones of a lasting relationship. When those are in place, she said, other aspects of the partnership tend to fall into place more easily.
Oboli wrote, “The first thing I would say is marry someone who believes in your dreams and your goals because if you don’t, that would really derail you in terms of your career. Marry someone who’s kind, you know. It’s not about how much money a man has or how many gifts he’s giving you or how many trips he’s taking you on. Is he a kind person? Because if he’s not kind, you’re really going to suffer later, you know. So you have to be very sure that, first of all, this man is going to support my dreams, he’s going to support my goals, and he’s a kind man. I think if you get those two things right, pretty much everything else will fall in place.”